Children are always welcome in our corporate worship gatherings. We love it when parents include their children in the worship service, and our gladness doesn’t diminish when children are fussy or tired. We do not want parents to feel embarrassment or shame because children act like children. Their cries and squirming are badges of honor!
If you’re interested, we also offer a Kids’ Time for ages 0-6. This is a time for children to enjoy fellowship with one another. We believe it is good and right for children to enjoy being with each other, in the same way that the saints in the land are the excellent ones in whom we delight (Psalm 16:3). We encourage parents to acclimate their children to the full worship service, while also giving them the flexibility to utilize Kids' Time until they feel their children are ready.
In addition to enjoying each other’s company and playing together, we plan to use the Kids' Time to teach the whole counsel of God. We aim to do this by reading a Bible story, catechizing our children in the Christian faith, memorizing passages of the Bible, and singing songs.
Three Goals in Our Children’s Ministry
The aim of our ministry to children and families is to help parents raise their children to become mature followers of Jesus. We do so by helping parents to be the smile of God to their children, by building a church culture that receives children in Jesus’s name, and by teaching children the whole counsel of God
All of creation speaks about God. The heavens declare his glory, the birds testify to his provision, and honey shows us what his wisdom is like. This fundamental truth — that creation reveals the character of God—is crucial for parents. It means that, as parents, we must tell the truth about God in our actions, our attitudes, and our words.
1. Be the Smile of God
At Cities Church, we believe that our fundamental calling as parents is to be the smile of God to our children. We are charged by God to bring our children up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). God has designed us as parents to show our children what he is like. And God is fundamentally a Happy Father—a Well-Pleased Parent. Therefore, we want the pitch of fatherhood and the melody line of motherhood to be Delight, Pleasure, Joy. We want our children to experience our delight in God as it overflows in our delight in them. We want to receive the gospel, display the gospel, and invite our children into the gospel.
2. Receive the Children in Jesus’s Name
But the call to invite children into the gospel is not limited to parents. Jesus charged all of his followers to receive children in his name (Mark 9:36–37). As members of the New Covenant, we believe that we are called to be a shelter for the children in our midst. Our prayers and praises are a covering for them, and we shelter them in hope that by the grace of God they grow up to become shelters themselves.
3. Teach the Whole Counsel of God
While parents bear the primary responsibility for raising children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord, the church has a vital role in the discipleship of children. The church’s obligation to disciple children is rooted in the broader call to preach Christ, admonishing and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present everyone mature in Christ (Colossians 1:29). As a result, we’re committed at Cities Church to instructing our children in the Christian faith, in the corporate worship gathering as well as in the everyday life of the church.
Listen to Pastor Joe Rigney’s sermon, “Parenting Together: Presence and Practice.”
Cities Church uses the children’s curriculum, The Gospel Project: